Category: Life..
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Black Mothers and their Black Sons…
Everyday at work, I watch white people and their kids interact. They always give them words of encouragement; telling them they’re great, they’re doing a great job, explaining things to them. Even if they’re doing the most simplest things. Then, I think about my parenting skills and those around me and even my moms…
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Natural Hair…
I’ve always been that girl who roots for the girl with that natural Afro, the beautiful braid-out, the wicked nice twist-out or the bomb ass Bantu knot-out. I’m the girl that’s like, “Yassss Afro!!” But rooting for myself hasn’t been that easy. My hair journey has been up, down and all around. It first started…
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The Move…
So, like I’ve previously mentioned, I moved out of Brooklyn…. One of the most terrifying decisions I’ve ever made was to buy a house. Because, I never imagined myself being single and owning a home. I always imagined being married, having two and a half kids, white picket fence, coming home from work picking up…
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Soon-To-Be-Ex-Wife-Meets-The-Girlfriend
“When I understood that forgiveness does not mean re-entry I was able to find peace” – Alex Elle You might be wondering, why the hell am I meeting the girlfriend?!… Well, I have to meet the girlfriend because, when your child is around someone often you must know who they are. Point blank. So, my…
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I’ve Been Down On Love, Lately…
Have You Ever Met A Woman Who Fell Out Of Love With Love? I would always tell myself, no matter what, I’ll still believe in love… now I’m questioning whether I believe in love and real relationships…. In my opinion, relationships aren’t real because people in general aren’t real. When you meet someone nowadays,…
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BabeLand: Beyond A BlowJob
So, you’ve read the title, now it’s time for the story… I decided to go to a blowjob class. My homegirl introduced me to the idea a while ago, usually the girls agree to do things but never follow through and after about a year of procrastination, I decided to go. Before I went I…
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Women That Are Faithful To Single Men…
A Couple of months ago I read something on instagram that said, “Re-post, if you’re faithful to a single n*gga”. People were re-posting and making fun of it, but in my mind I was wondering, why? Why re-post something that you know you’re not happy with? Why agree with it? Why not change your situation?…
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The Chaser…
“I Can’t Be Great For People Who Are Bad For Me And I Had To Learn That I Needed To Stop Chasing After Relationships That Were Fading” – Alexandra Elle, Love in My Language Why do we chase men? Especially those who can’t do sh*t for us. I see so many women chasing men, instead…
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Convincing Myself To Believe That “I’m Not Ready”
Everyday I drink two glasses of red wine and frequently, I read relationship books. I follow relationship gurus on social media and I often screenshot their quotes. I often see them telling women to take time out before jumping into a relationship. Then, I went to a Tony Gaskins seminar and he told a woman…
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