Tag: Men
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Keep The Family Close…
“I can’t deal with y’all shit, mommy shit and Rashaad’s shit!” Last year almost pushed me to the edge. That was me breaking on my sisters in our group chat… In 2018, I found myself in the eye of a hurricane holding onto my mom, sisters and brother. Making sure they didn’t get pulled…
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Soon-To-Be-Ex-Wife-Meets-The-Girlfriend
“When I understood that forgiveness does not mean re-entry I was able to find peace” – Alex Elle You might be wondering, why the hell am I meeting the girlfriend?!… Well, I have to meet the girlfriend because, when your child is around someone often you must know who they are. Point blank. So, my…
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I’ve Been Down On Love, Lately…
Have You Ever Met A Woman Who Fell Out Of Love With Love? I would always tell myself, no matter what, I’ll still believe in love… now I’m questioning whether I believe in love and real relationships…. In my opinion, relationships aren’t real because people in general aren’t real. When you meet someone nowadays,…
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Securing Your Relationship Before Posting For Likes…
“DISCRETION DOESN’T MEAN HIDE YOUR LOVE LIFE – IT MEANS BE WISE ABOUT THE INFORMATION YOU SHARE & WITH WHOM YOU SHARE IT WITH” It took me a while to fully understand what the above quote meant (years to be exact!). I used to think public displays of love via social media…
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BabeLand: Beyond A BlowJob
So, you’ve read the title, now it’s time for the story… I decided to go to a blowjob class. My homegirl introduced me to the idea a while ago, usually the girls agree to do things but never follow through and after about a year of procrastination, I decided to go. Before I went I…
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Women That Are Faithful To Single Men…
A Couple of months ago I read something on instagram that said, “Re-post, if you’re faithful to a single n*gga”. People were re-posting and making fun of it, but in my mind I was wondering, why? Why re-post something that you know you’re not happy with? Why agree with it? Why not change your situation?…
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The Chaser…
“I Can’t Be Great For People Who Are Bad For Me And I Had To Learn That I Needed To Stop Chasing After Relationships That Were Fading” – Alexandra Elle, Love in My Language Why do we chase men? Especially those who can’t do sh*t for us. I see so many women chasing men, instead…
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Convincing Myself To Believe That “I’m Not Ready”
Everyday I drink two glasses of red wine and frequently, I read relationship books. I follow relationship gurus on social media and I often screenshot their quotes. I often see them telling women to take time out before jumping into a relationship. Then, I went to a Tony Gaskins seminar and he told a woman…
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